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Reflecting on a Year of Divorce

2020 was many things. The year of a pandemic. The year of growing my business. My son's 10th year on earth. But it was also something that I never thought I would experience- it was my first year of being a divorcee. I didn't really know what to expect when I started this whole divorce process. Honestly, at first I thought it would be exciting. I was finally breaking free of the chains that had held me back for so long, and I thought I'd be happy. I am happy, but not in the ways that I thought I would be. I'll be straight with you- divorce is fucking hard. It takes a lot of hard work to heal these wounds. To pick yourself up from the depths of despair and rebuild your life. To heal not only your wounds, but also the wounds of your child. All the while, working and homeschooling and living through a literal global pandemic. I've learned so much about myself over the past year. Not all good either, might I add. I will be the first one to admit that I am in no way perf
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